Monday, 31 August 2015

Femme and the wailers.

I am extra needy today.

I want more.

Love me.

Wednesday, 19 August 2015

When words are not enough.

For my birthday this year, I got a tattoo  on my arm that says ------.

I wanted something I could look at when life's  inevitable shit comes for me:
Plane crashes, tsunamis, earth quakes, fucking religious  extremists and the  more probable breast cancer.

I would look at my arm  and tell myself not to take it personal.

Because shit happens, and it just might happen on me one day.

I just saw a woman whose husband got killed in a bomb blast at the Erawan shrine in Bangkok. She was talking about how she would remember  the good times she'd had with her husband with a smile while bravely fighting away the tears.

I look at my arm and realise I wouldn't want to see ------ if that was me.

It would be no consolation.

Female and Nigerian

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